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Originally posted by CityOfAngels
So, I don't know.....
I think I'm going to give her one more chance. The problem is I don't know how I should do it? I want to say, "You lie to me one more time, it's over." But it's not only an unrealistic request but also would make her scared to tell me about past lies. But then again, I can't stand the lying at all. It really hurts. How do you think I should handle it?
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I don't think a relationship that is based on ultimatums is a very healthy one. I think the basic issue - that you don't trust her, nor has her behavior really been trustworthy - is still there. Add to that that 1. you're both very young and 2. there's still the issue of her being in a different city, and I think a lot of things argue for calling the romantic/sexual part of the relationship quits. After wounds have healed, maybe you can still be friends, but it sounds to me like you're clinging to this one a little too hard, and harder than the circumstances would really argue for.