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Jaron · 08-28-2003, 02:11 PM

Before I say anything else, I'd like to point out several reasons that this isn't in Tilted Sexuality:

1) Although I sleep with her, this isn't a sexual topic.
2) This is basically asking for relationship advice, considering the comfort of being fairly anonymous around here and all that.
3) It's tied into a poem (which is on the Tilted Literature forum - not here because it's a poem, and it explains further in the to-be-linked thread).

Anyways, there's this girl who I've been seeing for five months (since mid-April). I actually "officially" went out with her for the first two months of that, and have been seeing her exclusively since she broke up with her boyfriend that she had right after me (because he was, before that, one of her best friends and she didn't want to hurt him twice - he'd asked her out before). At the time, we agreed on an "open relationship", which I figured would have worked quite well. After all, I have a bit of trouble controlling my libido which is sort of... not entirely good, for a "serious" or "official" relationship.

However, since then, she's revealed several things:
1) She only wants to be with me.
2) She doesn't want me to be with anyone else.
3) If I were, she would get jealous.
4) If she got jealous, then she'd get pissed off.

What the hell do I do?

I've written a poem (mentioned before) addressed to her, but I'm not sure whether or not I should even hint, to her, about its existance.

Here is the poem ==> http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=24599

All and any feedback would DEFINITELY be appreciated.

Thanks again.

08-28-2003, 02:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
Jaron Crazy Location: Hong Kong.	There's this girl... Before I say anything else, I'd like to point out several reasons that this isn't in Tilted Sexuality: 1) Although I sleep with her, this isn't a sexual topic. 2) This is basically asking for relationship advice, considering the comfort of being fairly anonymous around here and all that. 3) It's tied into a poem (which is on the Tilted Literature forum - not here because it's a poem, and it explains further in the to-be-linked thread). Anyways, there's this girl who I've been seeing for five months (since mid-April). I actually "officially" went out with her for the first two months of that, and have been seeing her exclusively since she broke up with her boyfriend that she had right after me (because he was, before that, one of her best friends and she didn't want to hurt him twice - he'd asked her out before). At the time, we agreed on an "open relationship", which I figured would have worked quite well. After all, I have a bit of trouble controlling my libido which is sort of... not entirely good, for a "serious" or "official" relationship. However, since then, she's revealed several things: 1) She only wants to be with me. 2) She doesn't want me to be with anyone else. 3) If I were, she would get jealous. 4) If she got jealous, then she'd get pissed off. What the hell do I do? I've written a poem (mentioned before) addressed to her, but I'm not sure whether or not I should even hint, to her, about its existance. Here is the poem ==> http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=24599 All and any feedback would DEFINITELY be appreciated. Thanks again.