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Originally posted by foe241
I know this isnt a big problem, but it kind of bothers me. My girl would rather have sex than have to give me a blowjob. She absolutely hates it. She said an old boyfriend always wanted her to do it and she never wanted to. And she would always gag to the point of where she couldnt go on. The sex is great, but I want her to return the favor when I go down on her. Any ideas on what I should say to her?
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1) Try not to let it bother you.
2) Realize that it's most likely her past that affects her present (i.e. not your fault).
3) Try to persuade her you've earned a bj by giving her more head. Or try persuading her to try 69 with her on top. She'll have more control over you and you can pleasure her while she does it.
4) Let her know that there are techniques and positions that reduce the chances of gagging or choking.
5) Give her complete control so she can build up enough trust to give you a bj. Don't thrust. Don't push her head down. Like angela suggested, maybe retraints will help.