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Okay, this is The Two Cents of the Evil, so heed it. We see what you don't.
1) It's completely possible to forget people you've slept with. You obviously haven't slept with enough people to know that. Which is why you don't understand:
2) Sex isn't the be-all, end-all. I've had sex with people that I didn't really like; in fact, I've had sex with people for revenge purposes. It's very intimate and all, but so is surgery, and you don't want to spend the rest of your life with your heart doctor, do you?
3) College is totally the place for her to get all that crazy shit out of her system so that she can come back to you a happy, sane, settled person who has found herself beneath all the childishness. You just make sure that your presence is felt. Call her. Write her. You can still be part of her life when she's away, especially if you:
4) Tell her that you'll understand her carnal relations at school, and ACTUALLY DO SO. Yes, she WILL end up sleeping with someone else, but her sense of guilt will keep it to a minimum. If it doesn't, what does that tell you?
5) Stop asking questions you don't want to know the fucking answers to. One of the main precepts that the evil recognize as truth is "Ignorance is bliss." You can fool yourself, and you can do it a LOT easier than you think you can.
Okay, I think I'm done informing for now. There's only so much public service I can do and still feel good about myself.
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