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i would have to agree with GoldenOuroboros on a few points..
first you two started off as "fuck buddies" which to my understanding is just sex without strings.. at that point you two were not involved in a relationship correct? so really what does it matter.. as long as you know you are the only one since you started seeing each other exclusivly
second the fact that she told you this can say 1 of 2 things either 1 shes a spiteful bitch who revels in the pain of others or 2 (which seems much more likely) she trusts you and wants you to know about these little unpleasentries
also i would have to agree with prince in that she cheated on a previous boyfriend.. whats to say she won't cheat on you? of course every relationship is different and just because she cheated on a previous boyfriend in no way makes it certain that she will cheat on you..
i do have to give you a big pat on the back about your response to the marrage question.. if your going to vow to spend the rest of your life with a person.. and only that person then you had better know that you can trust them
what raises question in my mind.. is that if she was in love with you.. why did she keep pressuring you to sleep with her friend?
this makes me wonder how connected she is with her own feelings.. if she only realized how she felt about you after the deed had been done.. then how does she know that marrage is a good idea? or even a relationship at all?
seems to me that she means well but can do with some serious soul searching here.. might help explain why she has such a problem with lying
overall i would give her a second chance and at least try to work things out.. however don't be suprised if things head south when shes at college.. absence does not always make the heart grow fonder
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