Think of it this way.....
Women are kind of like Bob Vila. For those of you from outside the U.S., he's a pain-in-the-ass remodeling guy who has his own t.v. show. Anyway, women look at a man and they don't see a piece of meat; they don't see a wallet; they don't see a car, or a stereo, or a trust fund.
Women look at a man and see a "fixer-upper".
While men revel in rebuilding classic cars or remodeling a home to their "perfect" place, women do the same thing with the men in their lives. When they realize that the job either is beyond their means, or the man isn't going to change that radically, or they just don't fucking have the time, ****THAT'S**** when they throw the "You'll never change..." line at you and give up.
Personally, I'm looking for a gal a lot like Anti-Fishstick: someone who realizes that I MIGHT change, but that there are no guarantees and is okay with that.
Anti - what are you doing the rest of your life????
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