My wife was very repressed starting out (catholic virgin). It has just taken lots of work to show her how exciting variety can be. More than half of our new ideas come from her. We do the public thing on occasion, but we talk about it more than we do. It does add an element of intensity for sure. The key is communication and letting her know you really care for her. A woman that completely trusts you will be a lot more amenable to fun suggestions.
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