Hey, you feel for her.
Question:
In ANY starting relationship with ANYONE, is it perfect?
or do you know what will happen, good or bad?
No.
Take it one step at a time, start slowly.
Push the friendship into a little more time together.
Push that time together into something more meaningful.
Push that into a hopeful relationship.
Push that into something special.
One follows the other.
If you push to fast, you just become a rebound as she fulfills her "needs", both emotional & perhaps physical.
If you don't push at all, then you'll always say "what if".
You don't have to "dive" into a relationship,
How about you just "wade" in?
Good luck.