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Originally posted by Jonsgirl
Eh, it does take a fair amount of time for him to recover. I can't honestly say how long, though. We haven't had sex twice in the same day for a long time.
It's nothing to do with his age, he's still young- 23. And I don't think it's that he really doesn't want any, it just never seems to happen and I don't know why.
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Actually, you *do*. It's in your next sentence.
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There have been some..umm...complicating emotional factors in our life and I think that's played a role in this situation. And bleeds into other ares of our sex life, as well.
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That's it right there. Sex is 90% emotional/intellectual. You can give the best physical stimulation in the world but if his emotional chemistry is out of whack, it just doesn't matter.
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I know that, for the most part, that's just going to take time to heal. (I just really hope it does.)
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Don't just hope... Do something about it. Make it the top priority. Regardless of whether you are part of the emotional turmoil, do whatever it takes to make him feel better. That will probably take care of the sexual problems.