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Old 08-24-2003, 05:10 PM   #8 (permalink)
Double D
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Location: Chicagoland
Re: How long to hold on...?

Quote:
Originally posted by guns&roses
i also don't know if i can handle being alone.
But aren't you, for all intents & purposes *alone* already?

There's a few red flags here:

You jumped into this relationship freshly out of another one (rebounding).

He's pulling away by immersing himself is his interests.

You are the one that has to inititate sex.

When you try to broach the topic of your relationship, he * chases you off* by getting upset, therefore ending the discussion before it begins.

He's sending you messages in a passive-aggressive way. He seems to want out of the relationship or perhaps something else is going on with him in his life that has disturbed him greatly
(maybe both).

Couples counseling is my recommendation.
If he won't go, then you go anyway.
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