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Originally posted by angela146
Example: two women (a friend and I) teaming up on him will usually do it. Five strokes from each of us alternating and each using our own technique... *that* will do it.
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Angela, you're great- if that didn't do it, i'd be checking his pulse.
But really, I had this EXACT same problem with my ex-girlfriend, except mine was raped- not penetrated, but FORCED to give blowjob to the point of gagging and throwing up, etc. Go as slow as you can. Ask once, then SAY it's ok if she doesn't want to, then let it go for a while- at least a week or two. Time, my friend, time. After some time, she realized it was something that gave me great pleasure (once or twice a week), and did it because of that reason, and then she started to LOVE to do it after having done it enough, and did it all the time. By the time we broke up, I could walk in the front door returning from work and have my pants pulled down in the doorway by surprise.
Or, she might never get over it. It's partly how you handle it, and partly her own mind. Are you man enough to deal with whatever you're dealt? I hope you are.
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Originally posted by Kadath
...just let her come to it on her own terms. You can live without blowjobs. Plus, it's a real jerk who insists on sexual activities that are unpleasant to his partner.
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Couldn't have said it better myself.