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foe: take it slow. ask once, and if she says no, wait a GOOD LONG TIME before asking again. you don't wanna pressure her, and believe me, asking every 15 minutes won't get you anything. she's obviously got some issues with blowjobs, so even more patience is required. maybe have her suck it a bit, with you holding still so she's in control, and then switch to regular sex to finish off, so she can get used to the feeling w/o chocking. tell her you're enjoying it, THANK her. express your appreciation that she is willing ot push her borders for you. no "more" ony "thank you for what you are willing to give" is a good way to make her comfortable. With me, so long as i'm comfortable, i'll start testing my own boundaries, and moving out through them. hopefully she can/will do the same.
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