She is probably not cheating.
Since you are leaving, she is probably distancing herself.
Some women don't consider BJ's and Handjob as intimate,
so in a strange emotional way, it allowed her to get you off, but not be connected.
It's kind of like hookers, doing sex, but not kissing.
She in a way was probably preparing herself for you moving away,
and this time she's following through...she can't continue to want you, but you're not THERE.
That makes the most sense to me.
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