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wesf · 08-22-2003, 01:19 AM

ok I have this problem and I just wanted some advice from everyone before I decide what to do; its kind of long but heres the story: I met this girl through one of my friends and initially when we first started talking she liked me but I didn't look at her like that. As time passed we became closer and closer and became best friends but I started feeling something more for her. I've known her for over a year now and I asked her out months ago (around 3 to 6 I would guess) and she said no because she didnt want a relationship. Well one day she found out that she had to move and she told me that she regretted not going out with me when she had the chance. A few weeks passed and she told me that she was in love with me and it was more of a friend love but there was something more there. Now back to the present: it ends up that she doesn't have to move now and she will continue living here. When she was moving it made me realize how much I care about her and that I can't imagine her not being in my life. I'm completely in love with this girl but I don't know how to show or tell her and I don't know if I should ask her out or what?? If anything isn't clear just ask but I really want a relationship with this girl. I think that we have something special and that we could have something real but how do I go about doing this?

08-22-2003, 01:19 AM	#1 (permalink)
wesf Upright	Need Advice ok I have this problem and I just wanted some advice from everyone before I decide what to do; its kind of long but heres the story: I met this girl through one of my friends and initially when we first started talking she liked me but I didn't look at her like that. As time passed we became closer and closer and became best friends but I started feeling something more for her. I've known her for over a year now and I asked her out months ago (around 3 to 6 I would guess) and she said no because she didnt want a relationship. Well one day she found out that she had to move and she told me that she regretted not going out with me when she had the chance. A few weeks passed and she told me that she was in love with me and it was more of a friend love but there was something more there. Now back to the present: it ends up that she doesn't have to move now and she will continue living here. When she was moving it made me realize how much I care about her and that I can't imagine her not being in my life. I'm completely in love with this girl but I don't know how to show or tell her and I don't know if I should ask her out or what?? If anything isn't clear just ask but I really want a relationship with this girl. I think that we have something special and that we could have something real but how do I go about doing this?