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Originally posted by TM875
Anyway, no matter how connected you may feel to someone, a relationship without sex cannot be strong.
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Originally posted by timalkin
[...] She doesn't want the relationship to change, but I see that as impossible when you take away something as intimate as sex. She gave in a couple of times and said "we'll just have sex then," but her tone of voice and body language scream to me that isn't what she really wants.
[...] She just doesn't think that sex is important.
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Okay, look. Maybe this is the difference between men and women. Women in general take everything into account when it comes to intimacy. Perhaps the problem is that you feel that intimacy means physical intimacy, and you don't feel that you're getting enough of it. I can't tell you how much of a turn off it is when a girl wants to spend time with her guy but all he wants to do is have sex. It's a major turn off when you can't even enjoy the company of your man for the sake of just
being with him. It's obvious that she views intimacy as something more than just sex, and she just gets disappointed when the only thing that comes to your mind is her body. And that is certainly not the only thing she has to offer! Am I making any sense here?