Well, I've talked to her a lot about it and she says that she just thought about it out of the blue. What can you say to that? She doesn't want the relationship to change, but I see that as impossible when you take away something as intimate as sex. She gave in a couple of times and said "we'll just have sex then," but her tone of voice and body language scream to me that isn't what she really wants.
As far as cheating goes, I'm one of the most cynical and untrusting people I've ever known, and I don't think she's cheating on me. She just doesn't think that sex is important.
I would honestly marry this girl in a second if I could stay home, but that won't happen. But then again, I don't think I could handle a life of being sexually frustrated by a wife who doesn't think that sex is important.
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