you should not accept the idea of haveing the baby, just because she feel like it. Having a baby is a big responsibility, trust me. I have 2 baby nices and 2 baby nephews. they are all under 2yrs old.. my sis and sis in law have no life after they had these babies, and you say she is still in school and work. I am sorry but she is a dum ass for thinking about having such plans,but the best thing to do is let her ask her older coworkers that have young kids, let them tell her how it would be like ofr her if she has abay while she is in school and working.
The sex part, is only a phase that occures when a woman is thinking about haveing her own family, espically when you are not married, since you have been with her for 4 years and I think she expect you to ask her to marry her by now. So, if you really love her, you should at least take the initiative and ask her to marry you, engagement sort of thing until she graduates from school and have a steady carear..
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