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Originally posted by baaa
Just stop doing something that she likes doing (like kissing, or cuddling ortalking to her.)
See how she likes it.
There are two of you in this relationship right? Give and take.
Why do women think they can hold sex over our heads like they do?
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And what would give you the right to hold back on something she likes?
Sex isnt a right in a relationship. She doesnt
have to have sex with him. That was just a fairly ignorant statement to make, I think.
Original question/concern. Have you talked much to her about this? Asked her why she feels this now after 3+ years? It is somewhat strange that she wants to stop just like that.
Talk to her about it though, see where her head is.
You mentioned that you'll be moving around a lot. Maybe it would be best to let her go... Might not be easy, but might be the best for the bothof you.