timalkin

I've been dating this girl for 4 years now. We started dating in our senior year of high school and have lived within an hour's drive of each other's college. We've always had great sex, but for the past six months she's been quite upset with me whenever I try to initiate, saying that I want it too often (3 times a week). She would sometimes be the initiator, albeit rarely. I guess you could say that we are not very compatible, sexually at least. Everything else is great. She's broken up with me a few times in the past, mostly because I'll be moving around the country when I graduate and she doesn't want to be heartbroken when I have to go. She's always come back to me after only a day or two.

She started working at a new place and hanging out with her coworkers, who are mostly older people, a few her age. She goes out to a bar with them once a week and hangs out with a few of her new friends during the week. When I came back from vacation, however, one of the first things that she told me is that she doesn't want to have sex until she is married because she isn't prepared to have a baby with me, even though she is on the pill. This is after 3+ years of sex! She expects me to be fine with it. She doesn't hesitate to give me blowjobs or handjobs whenever I want them, but I feel a real need to establish intimacy with her through intercourse. She doesn't understand this and I feel very guilty whenever I think about how much I want to have sex with her, which is very often (I'm a young male afterall.)

I honestly do not believe that she has or will ever cheat on me, but what the fuck is going on here?