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It's all in the communication and trust. My wife used to just take orgasms when she could get off easily and would just self-stimulate on other nights. Frankly her sex drive was pretty low. I finally convinced her that I was more than willing to do whatever it took as my orgasms are so much better when I know she has gotten off. It is amazing what regular orgasms will do to a woman's sex drive. Now it is much more frequent and much better than it used to be.
She had a friend who had been married for 10 years, and her and her husband were only having sex about once a month when they got drunk. She claimed he didn't do it for her. I contend it was because he didn't work at it with her. He would get drunk and expect to just go at it immediately. After they got divorced, she met a man, and they become like bunny rabbits. She said she didn't like sex before and now wham.
My wife says that a majority of women don't like sex. I don't believe that is true. What I do believe is that there are many women who either don't know what they like or don't know how to communicate it (or their husbands won't listen).
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