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Important lesson - saved my marriage more than once over 16 years: If you lover her and she is walking away - and if there is any chance of saving it - don't just let her walk away. Sometimes I think they just need to show that you want them enough to "not let them walk away".
Of course, only you know if this is the right course and if there is any real chance to go forward and make it work. The two things that make me feel a little pessimistic are that 1. you have only been married a short time - this stuff gets more difficult after 3 or 4 years, nevermind 10 or 15; 2. She has voiced the thoughts about seeing other men - This makes me think that she isn't nearly mature enough to be able to stay in a serious relationship, let alone a good marriage. It sounds like she shouldn't have gotten married in the first place if she is capable of these thoughts. Not a good sign. I only mention this stuff so that you don't forget about it or live in denial. If everything goes well and you get back on track then you should not tolerate any of this talk from her. If it makes you feel bad then tell her it does. Ask her if she wants anything sexually that you aren't giving her. Study up and develop better lovemaking techniques. If she is weak-kneed from you getting her off so much then she won't be able to think that there are greener pastures. I'm guessing that all is not well in the bedroom? If so, this needs to be your #1 priority. One fool-proof method is to munch her pu$$y for 20 minutes a few times a week before you get any for yourself. Get kinky and get her into you.
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