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Originally posted by kalashnikov
I was just wondering, you said you married her when she was 23; how old were you? And how long had you guys dated before marriage? It seems all too often these days people rush into marriage after knowing each other for only weeks or months, when they can't possibly know the other enough to properly make a commitment such as marriage.
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When we got married I was 25 and she was 23. We had been dating for 4 and a half years at that point. We started dating when I was 20 and she was 18. That probably has everything to do with her wanting to get out and see the world, as it were.
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Originally posted by yournamehere
I think you need to prepare yourself for the fact that, despite what she's told you, she's already found someone else - she's trying to sugarcoat it and let you down slowly, but my money says she's cheating already.
See, I know for a fact that she isn't. Despite any and all problems we're having, she is faithful and honest. She's very close with her family and especially her mom, who would not let her do something like that and not tell me. We've both said in the past that if we found someone new, that we would tell the other. Through all our difficulties, we are still honest with eachother.
Now...
As a follow-up, we got together with her parents last night and we all put everything on the table. I think things are starting to look up, at least a bit. We've agreed to try counseling and we spent a nice night together. Nothing is guaranteed, of course, but there's signs of hope amidst everything. I dunno how it's all gonna end up, but thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreciated it on one of my darkest days. Cheers.
(notalways)evilmatt.