I understand that you have tried a lot to get her to compromise with you about rethinking things and the vows. So far, you've neither confirmed nor denied trying to get her in to a marriage counselor. Try recommending that, see if she'll go with you. If she is absolutely unwilling to compromise (and it sounds like that's the way), you have to ask yourself... Is it worth agonizing over someone who is unwilling to compromise knowing full well it's not going to go anywhere despite all of the feelings I have for her?
And, if she has to be "true to herself," why wasn't she true to herself when she said her vows? If she was, I don't think you two would be in this predicament.
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