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I'm sorry this is happening to you.
The same thing happened to me 20 years ago (we never married, though)
I think you need to prepare yourself for the fact that, despite what she's told you, she's already found someone else - she's trying to sugarcoat it and let you down slowly, but my money says she's cheating already.
Sorry to appear harsh, and I hope I'm wrong, but to have her feelings do a 180 in just one year of marriage is very unusual, unless she already has a backup plan. She found greener grass (If it's any consolation - it won't stay green there for long, either).
It's a hard thing to do, but yuo need to move on without her.
Remember - living good is the best revenge. Keep that career motivation going - don't let her rob you of that, too.
It's hard to imagine now, but you'll find someone else and be happy again.
Good luck.
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"If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too."
It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.
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