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I'm not sure if you're looking for comforting words or advice on how to salvage your relationship, but it sounds like you believe that it's not a completely hopeless situation, so I'll try to throw out some ideas for you, but don't do anything I suggest unless you think it might help improve your situation. It sounds like you both had ideals about marriage, and she's probably experiencing some sort of disappointment that her greatest expectation has not been met (ask her what she expected/wanted from a marriage if it's not clear), so maybe you could do something for her to assure her that you can still be the one to provide her with romance, love, and security. If she wants to see other men, it may just be her way of saying that she's looking for something that she once saw in you, but over time fizzled away and never resurfaced. Find out if that's the real reason and see if that'll help rekindle that connection you once had with each other.
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