Isandro, everything you said is right on target. It's definitely less of a mind game for me and more about playing rough as far as my preferences go. The roleplaying is just part of foreplay for me, and I love being teased to the point that I'm all hot and bothered.
When it comes to BDSM, it's best to know what you're getting yourself into, and do it with an experienced person whom you can trust to do it safely. The domme must know your pain threshold, and know when to stop even if you don't use the safeword. There needs to be an understanding that after play time is over, the roles are reset, and playing the submissive or domme no longer applies.
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