I know I have very traditional views, but when my wife and I got married, we said vows to each other that bound us for all our lives. We both meant every word we said, and I intend to honor those vows till I die. My parents divorced when I was young, and I hated it. So, I'll do everything I can to make sure that doesn't happen to us. How does this relate to you? Well, your wife must make the decision to honor what she said on the altar the day she married you. I know that's not real popular right now, but feelings can change on a daily basis. All you have is your word to each other that you will be with each other and only each other for the rest of your lives. I agree with Onetime and Vyk that you need communication and you need to talk out whatever's wrong in the marriage. If that doesn't help, I'd see a counsellor. But at the end of the day, she needs to stand by her word to you that she is yours for life.
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"I'm disinclined to acquiesce to your request." - Capt. Barbossa
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