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Originally posted by vveronica
But so many guys thing immediately start thinking they can dominate and want me to be a sub or slave, just willing do as told and or take abuse.
And i know it is a comunication thing and I DO, then comes the other question how do you make a guy listen!
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They do it because they are inexperienced putzes. An experienced person would know that every person is looking for something different in BD/SM relationships (and what you describe is a form of BDSM). Usually rules and boundaries are set before anyone attempts anything. So if they jump all over you, they probably don't realize or fully comprehend the concept of boundaries and respect. In which case, I would defenstrate them immediately.