Golux

I have recently gotten out of a relationship in which I believe one of the factors in our breakup was my inadequacy to perform in bed. I'm not concerned about penis size or technique, because I only last (on a good day) a few minutes before it's over and I think that this is a far bigger problem than anything else. I recently talked to my ex (not the same girl I just broke up with) about it and she agreed that my sexual stamina was lacking. For me this has been a problem since I became sexually active and has made me very sensitive to my partners fulfillment in sex. I try to make up for my lack of stamina with a great deal of oral sex, but my last girlfriend got a yeast infection which she blamed on the excessive amount of oral sex. So, I had to back off and thus I was unable to please her as well.

I'm looking for techniques or SOMETHING I can do to make me last longer in bed. I don't want to take pills, or herbal supplements. To be perfectly honest, I don't care about my own orgasm. I'm far more happy (and it has happened 3 times in my life) when I don't. I just got some condoms which claim to be for "extended pleasure." Since I'm now single I'm not gonna get a chance to test these out. Does anyone know how and if these work, or if there are condoms that can help with stamina?

Thanks in advance for your help.

Golux