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difference in bound sex and bdsm
I guess i need other input on this.
I know there is a big difference between bound sex and bdsm, but, why dont guys. Why is it that if I'm into the helpless feeling then I have to be a submissive or a slave. I mean I am sorta small and in play i like to play resisting. It is exciting for me at least, to slowly bound made helpless. It is such a turn on if the guy/s slowly tease and overwhelm me, but i still struggle to hold my defiance...
But so many guys thing immediately start thinking they can dominate and want me to be a sub or slave, just willing do as told and or take abuse.
And i know it is a comunication thing and I DO, then comes the other question how do you make a guy listen!
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