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Originally posted by motdakasha
Would your wife kill you if you told her your feelings on this subject? Is she open-minded and understanding? If so, tell her about your mixed emotions. If you're feeling really open-minded, try researching: polygamy/polyamory. Perhaps she is your Secondary on an emotional level...
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Yes! If your wife is OK with it, this could be very good. Sex between good friends can be wonderful.
Also, maybe your wife wouldn't mind you being attracted to her as long as you don't act on it. It really depends on your relationship and your wife's attitude. Some women take the attitude "I don't mind if he looks at the menu, as long as he eats at home."
Even though we are "sort of polyamorous" there are some women who are "off limits" for my husband. Usually because we can't count on discretion. In those cases, I encourage him to fantasize about them as I get him off. I can usually take him to her bed in his mind.