Lesee.
Here in New Zealand we've had a run of high-profile cases of adult female pedophiles raping boys, so that's one answer.
Another is certain aspects of arousal are basically mechanical processes - you might ask "how could a guy get an erection for sex her doesn';t want?"; it's not a voluntary on/off process. For that matter, some women who are raped experience orgasms because they recieve physical stimulation - not because they wanted the stimulation.
Finally, rape is about having unwanted sex; you can coerce someone to have sex in any number of ways: drugs or threats to a job or loved ones for example.
If, after all, we consider it rape to fuck a woman who you've got too drunk to say "no", isn't the reverse true?
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