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Since emotions are involved, it muddies the water. If you can be friends without the "feelings for her", then you should be fine. But it's apperent that you do have feelings for her. I would first talk with your friend and just sort of let her know. Maybe she is sending you mixed signals and doesn't realize it? If you want to loose your marriage, then tell your wife, other wise keep it to yourself. If I had a very close friend that was a female, my wife would not be happy, and wouldn't want me to spend any time with her. Once you clear the air with your friend, either your friendship will be stronger, or it will go away, I bet it will get stronger, without any emotional attachment.
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