Would your wife kill you if you told her your feelings on this subject? Is she open-minded and understanding? If so, tell her about your mixed emotions. If you're feeling really open-minded, try researching: polygamy/polyamory. Perhaps she is your Secondary on an emotional level...
If not, depending on this second woman, you may or may not want to tell her about your frustration (not sure if that's the correct word). It might make things easier on you if you tell her about your mixed emotions, but that you love your wife. Maybe it'll lift the weight off your chest. If you feel she might use this to tempt/seduce you, then I'm all out of ideas.
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(I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)
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