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i don't know if it's been mentioned cos i coulda sworn i read it..maybe in another thread but....... "it's better to be alone for the right reasons than be with someone for the wrong" not sure if i got that verbatim but that was in the movie some kind of wonderful.
and yeah i have dated 'losers' and everyone kept telling me i could do better.. i deserve better, etc. deep down, i knew it too. but i really did see something in this 'loser' that they didn't see. maybe it's naive. maybe it's blind. i don't know. he wasn't a bad guy. he wasn't a JERK.. just.. a loser. heh. i saw potential.. i guessss i saw a chance for me to help actualize his potential in him. not to FIX him or CHANGE him really..because i know that's not good at all. *shrugs* just show him doors somehow. when that didn't work... i had to let him go.
i'm alone for the right reasons now ^_^
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
~Anais Nin
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