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i think it tends to be a different kind...date rape looks very different when the key player is the man's social conditioning that he's supposed to like sex...
My first partner ignored me, repeatedly when i said "No" with increasing conviction. i could have thrown her across the room if i had wanted to, but after a while i lost the nerve to keep refusing. that my wedding tackle had some "performance anxiety issues" probably was one of the greatest blessings of my life. I don't think it was rape...even date rape. But it was coerced...and i have very mixed emotions about it.
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