It can work based on your personality and how you approach things. I don't work well with almost any of my ex-es, but then again they were pretty psychotic or wrapped in their own melodramas.
I like to keep a clean plate when I can. I have enough problems with my own thing than to have someone with a cluttered history from my past in my life.
I will say this for sure though. If you're already feeling that certain things aren't clicking right, it's going to go downhill from there, unless you and her absolutely and really desire to be together for the long haul. Even if that's the case...think about your reasons for trying so hard. I don't think so, though.
Overall, once you get into your own 'self', this'll all be less of a worry. I'm not there yet really, but I've witnessed it a few times. Good luck to you.
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