College is such a different ballgame from high school, and for the vast majority of people I know who went (including myself), it was far, far, far better and more open/varied. The people are more real, you get far more interesting interaction going on, and you start exploring things you actually want to do, and think about.
You will probably be in a whole entire different social world as soon as you get into college. Don't take my word for it, but I'm telling you that this will all look very different soon.
Ultimately you have to decide if you can accept the consequences of wanting what you want despite what you know may be the more moral thing to do. I don't think either one is actually better, both can be learning experiences.
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