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Realistically, let's evaluate how this has worked.
Apparently she's often came to you for support before, as in you've been the one to be there, because she'd had a lot of other people and interests in her life, which is fine.
Really, from quite the last few months, she's blown you off most of the time as well from what you say.
Especially since her recent emotional problem has to do with a whole gender issue thing, it's hard for you as a man to say much that she will easily respect if she's shown herself to be that way about it. Furthermore, it also seems like a good question is posed already.."What are you getting out of it?". If you've already spent months trying to keep a generally semi-cool friendship about it, or what was one, and she doesn't care for it or for you personally at all, why are you wasting your time?
The only thing you're doing by continuing this is probably seeming creepy/pushy/more-like-a-doormat, and in any of those cases you're just wasting your own time for someone who's either too confused to really contribute to a mutual friendship or simply doesn't care much for you, period.
So in short, leave it alone. You have a lot better things to concentrate on in your life I am betting. And good luck to you.
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