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I was in a similar situation to this. I was living with a girl in college who I felt loved me more than I loved her. My love was very immature at that time, and I guess I didn't really know what it was all about. Luckily she sensed it and broke it up before I coud. I wasn't sure I had the courage to do it. However she did us both a great service as I ended up with a woman who was almost perfect for me. If your "romantic love" hasn't morphed into something resembling strong friendship with those romantic stirrings, I seriously doubt you two are going to last. Maybe she is the right girl but at the wrong time in your life. Take the advice of the posts above and lay it on the line. It very well might lead to a breakup but wouldn't you rather have it happen now than after marrying her and having several kids?
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