If you keep pressuring her, I'm sure she will get annoyed and that may cause a riff in your relationship.
When she thinks it is time for you both to take the relationship to the next level (oral) that is when she will probably want to get tested. If she springs on you all of a sudden for some oral and the tests haven't been taken yet. Be strong and wait til you get tested. You've waited this long right? Until then, just sit back and wait.
She may be nervous about the whole situation herself so she uses laughing it off to kind of deal with it. I don't think she is immature about it, but probably more nervous than anything else.
And you should definetly get tested. My girl had only been with one person with a condom but I still asked her to get tested before we had sex. Better safe than sorry.
Good luck, and be patient.....if its truely meant to happen it will.
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