You have to truely want to change, no one can do it for you.
I have changed some things about my self in the last year or so, and while hard it has been worth it. While I by no means had a bad life, I had fallen into a rut that wasn't getting me anywhere. The first main thing I did was cut my hair - I had had long hair for some 15 years at that point, and for various reasons that was where I started. That right there brought on a lot of reactions from many people I know, and I already felt more "adult" and neat. Next to go was the jeans/t-shirts that was my wardrobe for 95% of the time, got some nice clothes, shoes, a nice watch. I also have started a physical fitness program to improve my body. Bought myself a new truck and ditched my shitbox car... I look like a whole nuther person now. Anyway it can be done but it takes effort and determination. Good luck, we're here to help.
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Be a victor, or be a victim - David Vincent
My Toys:
1970 Dodge Challenger R/T 440SIXPACK
2003 Dodge Ram 1500 SLT QuadCab 4x4 5.7L Hemi Magnum
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