View Single Post
Old 08-03-2003, 10:26 PM   #22 (permalink)
billege
Watcher
 
billege's Avatar
 
Location: Ohio
And YOU are excusing his ignorance.

BBtB, you are letting this man escape responsibility for his own actions. This disease is crippling the 21st century in America, and the world.

Of course it's not HIS fault...(extreme sarcasm)

I don't need to act like a 6 year old to support my stance.

I'll give the guy the benefit of the doubt, he honestly has strong beliefs. Fine, good for him.

The meat was labeled, damn it, but he <b>"says he didn't realize "country style ribs'' means pork."</b>

When did ignorance not only become an excuse, but when did it shift the responsibility to the other party as well?

He's an immigrant. That means he's going to have to make the effort to live in a foreign society. He gets to have his beliefs, and he gets to TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for them! That means if he doesn't know what the label means, he needs to ask.

Period. End of story. There are no excuses, addendums, or alternatives.

He saw the LABEL. The label said "COUNTRY STYLE RIBS." He <i><b>ASSUMED</i></b> that meant beef.

HE didn't ask what it meant.
His mistake, he needs to own it. The rest of you need to stop trying to excuse it.

<b>"..why, if Tabari were so devout, he was trying to buy regular beef instead of meat that is halal, or prepared according to Islamic law. <i>Food Maxx carries a small selection of such meats.</i></b> (emphasis mine).

If the wifey usually does the shopping I can understand him not being used to the labels. However, if the store already accommodates his beliefs by carrying Halal meats, he could have compensated for his ignorance by playing it safe and staying in the Halal section.
He didn't, did he? In fact, I think this guy was out to save money. I'll bet that the Halal meat is a shade more expensive.

But, this dude was maybe not able to swing it; but, apparently his wife can buy it, so who knows what the money issue is.
Either way, this guy is not as careful as someone truly devout would be. That's HIS fault.

<b>"Sometimes, he buys meat at regular stores and blesses the food himself."

"Mavani, from the Islamic cultural center, said one school of Sunni Muslim thought permits Muslims to eat non-halal meat as long as they make a prayer over the meal."

"It's not highly encouraged,'' Mavani said, ``but permissible.''</b>


I'll tell you something else too, he was going to make
<b>"a delicacy called paya, traditionally made with cow's feet.</b>"

COWS FEET does not translate to "country style ribs!" I can understand not knowing what "country style ribs" means. What I can't understand is buying "ribs" when you need COWS FEET for your delicacy.

I also can't understand asking a simple question, if such an important belief is an issue.

I also can't understand why so many people stopped believing in personal responsibility.

I just don't understand.
__________________
I can sum up the clash of religion in one sentence:
"My Invisible Friend is better than your Invisible Friend."

Last edited by billege; 08-03-2003 at 10:28 PM..
billege is offline  
 

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 119 120 121 122 123 124 125 126 127 128 129 130 131 132 133 134 135 136 137 138 139 140 141 142 143 144 145 146 147 148 149 150 151 152 153 154 155 156 157 158 159 160 161 162 163 164 165 166 167 168 169 170 171 172 173 174 175 176 177 178 179 180 181 182 183 184 185 186 187 188 189 190 191 192 193 194 195 196 197 198 199 200 201 202 203 204 205 206 207 208 209 210 211 212 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 222 223 224 225 226 227 228 229 230 231 232 233 234 235 236 237 238 239 240 241 242 243 244 245 246 247 248 249 250 251 252 253 254 255 256 257 258 259 260 261 262 263 264 265 266 267 268 269 270 271 272 273 274 275 276 277 278 279 280 281 282 283 284 285 286 287 288 289 290 291 292 293 294 295 296 297 298 299 300 301 302 303 304 305 306 307 308 309 310 311 312 313 314 315 316 317 318 319 320 321 322 323 324 325 326 327 328 329 330 331 332 333 334 335 336 337 338 339 340 341 342 343 344 345 346 347 348 349 350 351 352 353 354 355 356 357 358 359 360