To each his own
Everybody is right here, to some extent. Each person has some certain procedure they use for choosing women. If you go primarily for looks over personality, then that's your thing. If you want all personality, then that works too. Same goes for a combination of both.
Personally, looks are important, but there is also so much more to the puzzle.
For example, I wouldn't just go ahead and start talking to an ugly (I hate to use that word) girl out of the blue. Looks definately help with that initial social interaction.
For example, my girl is drop-dead gorgeous (a lot of guys are jealous), but she thankfully has an awesome personality and we share a lot of great moments. She's not all beauty and no brains either.
Back to those that aren't blessed with amazing looks, if there is some forced social interaction between us, I may grow very fond of her. We could talk about a subject and just hit it off. Looks will still play some role in whether or not I will like the woman, but it really is what is inside that counts. You need to be able to share moments, feelings, emotions, and times with each other.
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