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To the boyfriend, make a choice to drink or not to drink for yourself, alcohol is not like the weed in the movie Reefer Madness, one drink does not destory all control, As far as the underage thing, it has been my experience 30 years a fair number of which spent around parties and drinkers, people who respect alcohol at 17 respect it at 30 or 40, having a couple of drinks in the course of a few hours at a party isn't a bad thing.
Just a bit of advice from some one who has been a teenage guy in love with somebody, don't ask how the drinking was, ask how was your weekend. it's a lot nicer and leads to better conversations that hitting a hot button. On some level she knows it becasue you care but if you want your relationship to last over time, remember people change and grow.
Good luck guys
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