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Hey, this is Nicole I'm on my friends name. I have first hand experiance with this. I grew up without my dad cause hes a truck driver. I can imagine why girls would be more sexually active, I personally am not. Still waiting to fall in love. But you turn to men to fill the gap like a couple people already said. U dont get the attention u need, your mother definatly cant be both no matter how hard she trys. You dont have a male teaching you how you should be treated by a man or what kind of man is good for you. I guess it could work both ways.... one of my sisters moved in w/ a MUCH older man right out of high school and is still w/ him. Maybe because of the fact that he would never leave her, she has that stability and love she needs. My other sister has had a nonstop boyfriend her whole life, I dont think shes ever been single. Me on the other hand, I stay away from it for the most part. When u have a father ( if u can call him that, more like sperm donor) that is gone all the time it definatly causes lots of issues, a lot w/ being able to trust a guy and get over your fear of them leaving you. At least w/ me. I had a ' surigate' father for about 4 years when I was younger.... I had never had that kind of attnetion from a man so I didnt really know that the attention I was getting wasnt really the right kind all of the time. The realtionship ending horribly.... I hope more guys out there step up to the plate because daughters really need you. Anyways thats just a few of my thoughts....
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