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STRESS STRESS STRESS!!! I can remember being with my first girlfriend and wanting to please her SOOO bad.. But couple the anxiety of that and my dissapointment over my greatly inflated expectations of intercourse and you have disaster.
RELAX RELAX RELAX.
Also - this probably isn't good advice, but it may get you over the hump (bad pun - my apologies) is to lose the condom, if you're using one. Yes, you're taking risks. Make sure you're using some other form of BC - Make sure the both of you are clean. Using condoms is something that people have to adjust to and if you have no reasonable expectation of the gloved experience, you may have problems. If that's not an option, try using a water-soluble lube on both surfaces of the condom. It'll transmit more heat and smooth things out. Whoever said that they put enough lube on pre-lubed condoms needs to be shot.
Sorry - Long winded. I just didn't want you going off and begging your Dr. for viagra if it's something that can be solved by changing your behavior.
Enjoy your new found sex-life. Every minute of it. Nothing's quite as special as your first. (As i've found out about 9 girls and 6 years later)
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