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Originally posted by cheerios
i'm thinking it's, for lack of a better term, performance anxiety, and nothing is gonna get you over that, other than relaxing. good luck!
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Yup. If you can get it up and hard when she strokes you, or when watching a movie, it probably isn't ED.
It just takes practice. My fiance (now husband) and I had the same problem early on. Part of it was that he had trouble keeping his balance while trying to enter me. He was thinking about the mechanics instead of thinking about having sex.
If she is willing to help (and it sounds like she is) try this: get yourself in position as if you were going to put it in her (even though you are soft). Then she does whatever it is that *really* turns you on.
That might include telling you erotic stories or touching herself or thrusting her hips or whatever. The key is, get yourself in position *before* you are hard and then start working on the erection.