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Minx · 07-29-2003, 01:41 PM

pezking4 had a very great point....be the DD
There is nothing at all wrong with having just one to relax but there is no need for excess. You are being smart but remember not to preach too much - your choices are your own and very commendable but they are still yours.
It's very hard though to hang out with people who have been imbibing when you are stone-cold sober. The best advice is to take it with a grain of salt....have fun and relax. Giggle a little at them and then know that you may have a hand in getting them home safely when all is said and done.
As far as your b/friend goes....if he doesn't trust you then he doesn't trust you. End of story. If he wants to grill you on what you are doing when you are with these people well then it just doesn't show a whole bunch of faith on his part. I'd say this looks like trouble down the road....but perhaps he's just being overly protective as he is worried about you. Talk to him - you may be surprised what he reveals!
Best of luck either way!

07-29-2003, 01:41 PM	#8 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	pezking4 had a very great point....be the DD There is nothing at all wrong with having just one to relax but there is no need for excess. You are being smart but remember not to preach too much - your choices are your own and very commendable but they are still yours. It's very hard though to hang out with people who have been imbibing when you are stone-cold sober. The best advice is to take it with a grain of salt....have fun and relax. Giggle a little at them and then know that you may have a hand in getting them home safely when all is said and done. As far as your b/friend goes....if he doesn't trust you then he doesn't trust you. End of story. If he wants to grill you on what you are doing when you are with these people well then it just doesn't show a whole bunch of faith on his part. I'd say this looks like trouble down the road....but perhaps he's just being overly protective as he is worried about you. Talk to him - you may be surprised what he reveals! Best of luck either way! __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!