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a. simply say "no thank you" -- no more explanation needed!
b. focus on other fun activities at the gatherings -- such as meeting new people, hanging out, etc.
c. celebrate your success with your bf before he has time to ask (guess what honey, it has been 2 weeks since I had a drink.) It sounds like he may be concerned from past events. His concern will eleveate over time.
Good luck!
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